How do we break free from false saviors...
J.P. Montalvan • July 11, 2023
"In the distant future, people may outlaw driving cars because it's too dangerous. You can't have a person driving a two-ton death machine."
-- Elon Musk
photo courtesy of Steve Jurvetson
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Breaking Free from False Saviors
You might know Mark Lemonis, who has made a mark on the business world with "The Profit," a reality TV show where he provided financial assistance and guidance to struggling businesses in an effort to make them profitable. You might know Elon Musk, the driver behind companies like Tesla and SpaceX, each of which has made groundbreaking advancements. Lemonis and Musk’s long-range vision has shifted not only how our world works but also how we think.
We can learn from people like Musk and Lemonis true visionaries, right?
As we look to grow, we often hear captivating stories about individuals who appear to hold the keys to success and innovation. These stories often showcase charismatic figures claiming extraordinary abilities to transform industries and lives.
Not all saviors live up to their larger-than-life image.
Lemonis was sued in 2021. “Marcus Lemonis is a wolf in sheep’s clothing, and a false prophet who uses his fame and fortune to steal small businesses from everyday Americans,” said the complaint. The filing said that an 8 month investigation revealed that at least 51 companies that have appeared on the show suffered a similar “hellish nightmare” and pattern of humiliation, fraud, extortion and other charges. That said, an arbitrator in May dismissed one fraud and breach of contract claim, finding that the allegations were “unsupported by competent, credible evidence.”
Late last year, Elon Musk suspended and then reinstated the Twitter accounts of several journalists over a controversy on publishing public data about the billionaire's plane. The reinstatements came after the unprecedented suspensions evoked stinging criticism from government officials, advocacy groups and journalism organizations, with some saying the microblogging platform was jeopardizing press freedom. Today, one NY Times wrote that “under Elon Musk, the platform could be unreliable and unfiltered. Some users called it toxic.”
Like visionaries, “false saviors” have a special power. They promise breakthroughs and solutions to our most difficult challenges. They exude confidence and inspire hope, making us believe they possess unique insights and abilities that can revolutionize industries.
Even with visionaries, we must separate the vision and what what it really means for us.
As we talked about last, you’re the only person that can save yourself.
This month, my Leadership Circle and I are focused this month on the concepts around build a strong inner self — how we save ourselves. When it comes to learning from and receiving help from others, how do we separate the vision of others from what we need in our lives, tapping into our own power?
Here are 3 essential steps to avoiding false hope and continuously building your inner self...
Unveil the Vision.
Take time and critically evaluate claims and actions. False saviors may make grandiose promises or engage in sensationalist tactics to capture attention. Dig deeper and assess the veracity of their claims. Look for diverse perspectives that can help you.
Use Your Critical Eye.
Question and analyze evidence. By honing your critical thinking skills, you can filter the noise and make informed decisions. A critical eye allows you to appreciate the accomplishments of remarkable individuals while acknowledging that no one person holds all the answers or possesses infallible wisdom. Use evidence-based decision-making.
Embrace Your Own Power.
To guard against the allure of false saviors, embrace your own inner power. Leverage your own potential and engage in a continuous journey of personal growth and empowerment.
Not all visionaries are false saviors, and not all false saviors are visionaries. Successful people can captivate us with their charisma and claims. Mark Lemonis and Elon Musk have achieved remarkable success, but no one is exempt from scrutiny. By unveiling a vision, using your critical eye and embracing your own power, you can separate genuine vision from those who fall short.
Tap into your own capabilities. Chart your path to success, armed with wisdom and a critical mindset.

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Happy Hump Day!
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Edwin was born in the small town of Steubenville, Ohio. His education started in Miss Randle’s kindergarten and was followed by Henry Orr’s seminary around the block. At 10, he entered George Buchanan’s nearby Latin school where he was called “an imperious and self-reliant young man.”
Edwin’s lifelong struggle with asthma might have contributed to his temper, but so could have the early death of his father and the deaths of his brother and two children.
And on the eve of achieving his life’s dream — nomination to the Supreme Court — Edwin Stanton’s chronic asthma caused his death in 1869.

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This weekend, the conversations with my parents are covering a myriad of topics, from advice on navigating parenthood with our newborn daughter to discussing strategies for managing their health.

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Upon entering the cozy pub, we were greeted incredibly warmly. Our waiter was a young man who attended to us graciously through our meal, and when he had to leave was replaced by an older waiter. The older waiter had a twinkle in his eye, as they say, and he immediately struck a chord with us. As our main meal switched to delicious desserts, he engaged us in some lively conversation and took a genuine interest in our newborn daughter in the stroller by our table. His genuine care and enthusiasm was really something.

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“I got a role in this movie called Freeway playing this really angry, aggressive, violent young woman who believed wholeheartedly in the truth,” Reese shared. “I had such satisfaction afterward, and I thought, that's what I want to do.”

Closing the Gap: Kareem’s Legacy and Your “Big 3” to Success
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